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Things That Make Men Unattractive


Outside of the obvious like:

-Personal hygiene

-Unkempt physique

-Bad style

there are other factors that can make a man unattractive, they have nothing with genetics or physical aesthetic, but everything to do with how you show up.

Here is a short list


1. A fixed Mindset

Nothing is less attractive than a fixed mindset. We live in unprecedently amazing times, we have access to more knowledge, wisdom and raw computing power than any other time in human history.

And yet so many men view the world in a negative light and with an attitude that says ''I can't do that''.


They're envious and jealous of others, but never willing to embrace the grind and put in the work themselves.


Realize that anything can be learned, any skill can be developed, any weakness you have can be transmuted into strength.


When you believe in the growth mindset, you no longer see yourself as someone who is fixed in their particular story (e.g. I'm an alcoholic, I'm dyslexic, I'm not smart etc). Instead, you see yourself as a sculpture that can be molded and chiseled into something amazing.

That is when you unlock the ability to become truly attractive to the world.


2. Negativity

No one likes spending time around people who constantly complain and moan.

It's the single most unattractive behavior and an instant killer of social interactions. If you want to be more attractive, then you need to stop constantly complaining.


3. Seriousness

So many men walk around acting like they have a stick up their butt. No matter how hard you work, or how much money you make.... You're still going to die someday.

So chill out and enjoy life a little bit, have more fun, don't take everything seriously, people are more attracted to people who bring fun vibes and good emotions.


4. Lack of Ambition

Lack of ambition is one of the biggest attraction killers for most women. You don't need to be a millionaire to be attractive to a woman, but you need to have the ambitions to rise out of your current status and achieve more for yourself.


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